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I have pock-marked skin, hooded eyes, and a bulbous nose.
My voice is deep, which apparently makes me less desirable to men.
I would be flattered that women are fighting over me...
but if I was with a girl and she got territorial it would be a turn off. All this sort of behaviour usually stems from insecurity and lack of self confidence. Either I have never been the object of such territoriality, or I have been oblivious to it.
“You have no idea what it’s like to be called beautiful all the time,” a good friend once remarked.
“It’s like your biggest accomplishment is something you didn’t do yourself.” She wasn’t being rude; I’m not beautiful in the traditional sense.
A week ago, fellow PT blogger Mark White wrote a post about the fact that "there are valuable insights that can be gleaned from basic economic principles applied to situations usually not regarded as economic in nature, especially marriage, family - and dating." To illustrate his point, he mentioned a post I had written about women's competition for "good men." He proposes that this competition could be seen as an application of the prisoner's dilemma (which he nicely describes).
Using the prisoner's dilemma, he shows that when women collectively spend resources, including time, money and energy, in competing for the same good men, they are losing out collectively. White states, reaching a collective effort so that all women stop competing would be difficult to obtain - to put it mildly.
OK so there are a few threads on this but none of them address the specific questions I have. I don’t mean women who like to win, play sports, or generally succeed.Take for example self-promotion, which is when we try to make ourselves look great, compared to rivals.If you work out, dress fashionably, wear cosmetics, and practice good hygiene, are you doing this to make yourself look good? Using a competitive framework, I argue that often we do these behaviors to look good, compared to rivals. White's post by saying that her examination of high achieving women shows that they are redefining what "good men" are, and that they are spending less time competing for mates.From grade-school dances in gyms to corporate happy hours, I’ve been “swiped left” on more than my fair share. You’ll date more attractive men.] As it turns out, my good-looking friends aren’t completely out of touch.“Online dating is just awkward,” my cute co-worker scrunches her nose. “Classically attractive” women have more difficulty online dating.